04 May 2011

military wives and osama bin laden


Much has been floating around on the web about the death of Osama bin Laden. His death has stirred up many emotions and reactions, and I am no different. However, there is one group I am somewhat disappointed in- Christians. Certainly not all Christians. Many have taken a mature and sensitive approach to the topic. For that, I am thankful because they have not made the entire religious group look like a bunch of back-patting, self-righteous, super-spiritual people.
I have encountered thoughts about how, as Christians, we should respond. Many think we shouldn't celebrate the death of OBL, that we should be mournful because he did not know Christ. While there is truth to that, the words used to express their thoughts can be offensive to others who may not be a Christian or may have a loved one serving there. We have to be careful what we communicate so that no one misunderstands what we really mean.
What do I think? I certainly am celebrating the physical death of a man who had earthly justice given to him by a government ordained by God. He walked this earth as an evil, destructive man. I am thankful he is no longer able to spread his disease of hatefulness and wickedness. I am celebrating in the justice to the families that lost their innocent loved ones at the hand of a demented man. I celebrate that he is no longer walking this earth.
Spiritually, it is sad to know that he died a death apart from Christ. I do not wish that anyone should perish without knowing the saving power of Christ! No, I don't celebrate his eternity. But, I am not responsible for his own choices. He knew the Bible well. Well enough that he chose to discard it and to adhere to his own beliefs. He knew it well enough to deny Christ and turn his back defiantly on Him. I do rejoice in the fact that we serve a Sovereign and a Just God! If OBL were to die with Christ that would not be the God that I serve. I have peace in knowing that my God is Consistent, Fair, and Firm.
Having said all of that, the group my heart reaches out to is the military wives. I am familiar with the group because my mom has been in their shoes. My own Pop, who continues to work civilian for the Army in the Aviation and M.L. Division of Engineering, retired from 32 years of service to the Army after his last assignment serving in Iraq. During his Iraq tour after 9/11, my mom had to stay stateside never knowing any more details than the rest of us about what was going on. She had the same news source as we all had- the media. I am extremely proud of our men and women who serve in our military. They give up many luxuries and are paid way too little for the job of protecting myself and my family- here and abroad!
As the military wives watched the news of Americans gathering in celebration upon hearing the news of OBL's death, I can't help but think of the sighs of relief let out across our country. Oh, these wives know it's not over, but for one moment in time- one moment in history, they were able to justify all the sacrifices they give on a daily basis. How proud they must have been of their men! How honored they must have been feeling to be a military spouse at that moment! They were celebrating in a job well done!
Then to turn around and see many Christians, who had very good intentions, begin sharing their thoughts about the celebrating of OBL's death. The Christians meant well and their thoughts were more aimed at not celebrating his spiritual death. But what they don't realize is that some of them came across as pious and self righteous. Making themselves seem like super-christians by the claims of being "sure not to take delight" in OBL's death and being extremely humble. The problem is that not all military wives are Christians and even those that are might not quite understand the thoughts that were expressed. Some of these women have lost their loved ones in a war lead by this man. They may see that as ungrateful- even hurtful. If we want to show them the love of Christ, let's be careful to be sensitive about how we express our thoughts. Maybe sandwich our thoughts with gratitude to the military men and women on a job well done.
To all the military spouses out there, THANK YOU for what you give up on a daily basis. Thank you for the sacrifices that YOU make for our country. Thank you for loaning your spouse on the behalf of MY protection. Thank you that you have courageous spouses who risk their own lives for the lives of my family, whom they do not even know. I am so proud of the ones serving and the ones who they are married to! I celebrate with you on the death of Osama Bin Laden! I rejoice that justice was served and that YOUR men helped to do it! Much love and blessings to each and every one of you!

17 April 2011

pass it on


Had a friend share this with me this morning...hope it puts a big 'ole smile on your face just like it did mine!
Anybody needin' some lovin'??? Pass it around and I bet it will come right back at ya!

14 April 2011

ahhh...summertime


Loving this weather, how about you? We are finally standing at the threshold of my favorite time of the year- Summertime!
What is not to love about warm temps, sunshine, long days, shorts, tank tops, flip flops, pony tails, suntans, swimsuits, water activities, and grilling out? Ok...ok...maybe those pesky mosquitoes! Gah!
So, in honor of this time of the year, share a laugh with me from one of my favorite scenes from a familiar movie. Enjoy!

26 March 2011

calling all fitness junkies

Recently went to Florida for Spring Break with the girls. Had an absolutely wonderful time. The location was gorgeous and the weather was more perfect than we could have dreamed. But, do you know what it takes to get a girl ready for swimwear season? In March? Whew! Talk about hitting the gym hard. Thankfully all that hard work paid off and once again ready for swimsuit season. Well, as ready as one can really be. Women will always find our own flaws and wish there were things they could improve...
One thing I did notice. Trying to lift my teeny-tiny-skinny-a-rail child, I got her lifted up but only for a brief second. The aftermath left us both eating sand! I have got to get some upper body strength. I have tried and tried to build upper body strength but something just isn't working. Lower body, better than good. Upper, not so good. Frustrating.
Even on vacation I try to sneak in exercise but it has to be FUN outdoor exercise, no gym. Everyone is thrilled. I mean, look at that excited face on CB. She can barely contain her enthusiasm. I keep telling her that "one day" she will thank me for making exercise a part of her lifestyle. That and all the other things I tell her she will be thankful for!
So, what about all of you fitness junkies out there? What advice would you give? The typical eat right and exercise are already covered. However, are there particular foods or exercises that really work for you?
Oh, and any advice you'd like to throw in on how to make your teens grateful...well, nevermind ;)